For those going through a child custody case, there can often be a lot of anger involved.  In many of these cases, the parties are at odds at each other.  Both the mother and father in other words might have totally different viewpoints on what is in the best interests of the children.

On extremes, the mother might think the children would be better with her.  On the other end of the spectrum, the father might think the children are better with him.

When parties are at opposite ends of the spectrum like this, it can cause lots of problems.  The parties can become angry with each other.  Of course, in many of these cases, it might have began through a marriage or relationship gone wrong.  One party might be upset with the prior conduct of the other.  One or both parties might think that there would not be a custody case at all if the other party had behaved differently.

This can culminate in many becoming angry and hostile.  They may feel as if the relationship with their children could be put in peril.  This can result in many appearing angry and adversarial in court.  They might wish that their attorney behave in the same manner.

Of course, the party who appears as the mature parent often does better in custody cases.  Judges are very often looking for the parent who is rising above it.  Versus being caught up in the conflict and the battle, what is more impressive is the parent who is putting the interests of the children first.  By putting the interests of the children first, these parents ironically can end up in a better position as it relates to their own custody rights.

It is critical that any party going through a child custody matter have legal representation that guides somebody in the right direction.  It is vital that parties going through a custody case behave in a manner in which they will be proud.